Making love versus fucking…..

My question of the day….

Making Love vs. Fucking!

So I got to thinking about the whole making love verses fucking thing and realized that society thinks these two are mutually exclusive. Why do they have to be? Are our perceptions wrong?

My 2 pennies worth….

Making love shouldn’t be limited to the tender and sweet side. Why does slow and gentle and passionate always denote love and affection. I have had tender and gentle partners that hold no real deep love for me and vice versa have had partners that loved me very deeply and still fucked the shit out of me.

I think society as a whole would be better off and much less repressed if they got passed the notion that you can’t love someone without being all tender and sweet.

Sex is sex after all. It doesn’t matter if it is all rainbows and sunshine or dark and twisty, it’s just sex. Everybody has their own opinion as to how they like it. Just remember that the way it is handled has nothing to do with love. That has everything to do with the person you are with and the bond you have, not the act itself.

So let lose your tightly laced, judgmental selves, find someone you truly love and let your imaginations soar. You can love someone and still hurt them and/or be hurt by them under the context of safe, sane and CONSENSUAL.

Happy Fucking!

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