In need of naked hot bodied cuddles

Hi everyone who comes over to read my post and thank you for taking the time to read my ramblings.

I havent been on for a while due to feeling unwell. Iv been spending most of my time laid on the sofa under my blanket.

But today i feel bit better so i though id try and write a bit. My typing is going slow as the cold really effects my joints and especially my hands.

So iv decided im recruiting a hot water bottle in the life size shape of man. You just need to be red blooded as in hot hot hot so i can steal your heat from you!!

In return i cant promise much other than my warm sweaty body laid next to you not really doing much!!

Oh and my breasts sticking to you as you try to roll away from me lol

On that note im going to make myself some dinner and try my hardest to warm up and pray my nipples dont drop off in the mean time!

Feel free to send supplies… ya know chocolates cheese coffee….


Boobs Bums … Its February

I think the lack of sleep I had from the previous night is catching up with me.Trying to get myself rolling this morning was a bit rough. However was able to get moving about and get myself some tea and toast breakfast. Once eaten i then decide i need to start working on the huge pile of washing that really needs to be done. I need a  man slave . . I can guarantee i will need a little lie down and a nap before moving my living room around.

Two hours later I get up and still a bit groggy but felt a little more focused. Hope I am not coming down with something. I have such a sore throat and a stuffy nose. I know that there is a lot going on.

Here in blog land, I have been able to communicate with a few more people. Been nice to actually interact with another individual. Getting beyond “Hi”and “How are you doing”, always seem to be a challenge for me. :: queue the crickets ::

Any-who, another fun filled week awaits me. Best to get some rest so that I am not dragging too much while on the job (I say to myself as im still sat here in my pjs…)

Happy February everyone xxx

New adventures and new encounters await me.

BBW facesitting

Obviously im bored today. I guess that comes from hurting myself and being stuck in the house… esp as its snowing too as i know id go arse over tit.

So on my twitter account i get asked a lot about facesitting. To be honest its never really appealed to me especially as im a very big girl and id hate to be up on some sort of charge because id suffocated some one to death lol

So i thought id look up the whole fetish thing and this is my conclusion to the whole thing..

1. Release of control – for the person being sat on, it is about relinquishing control into the hands of their “mistress”. Their life and quite literally the air that they breath is left up to whomever is sitting on them, be it their chest, face or body. When someone has an arse as big as mine…just half of my weight would  completely cut off the ability to move from under me or catch air unless I lifted off enough to do so. Many times the release of control is by a “Sub” who holds a powerful position in business/life OR has to maintain control in their “vanilla” daytime activities. They need a place to release and someone to forcibly take control out of their head and hands.

2. Surrounded by Mistress’ essence – It’s also about being completely enveloped by the scent of a woman. Your head and torso is so completely encased within thick, massive thighs, that every time you inhale, you inhale her. Personally, I like to shower before anyone is going down there , however some of you naughty slaves like the heady scent of a woman after she’s worked up a sweat through out the day….

3. Pressure – Can you imagine what’s it’s like to have 400  pounds of massive arse sitting full weight on your chest or face? I guess the seat would prefer someone who is bottom heavy  which is why i often wonder why iv been asked as im obviously top heavy. The seat loves the feeling of the immense pressure that a body puts on them as the lady would  sit, lie or stand. It seems like most people into BBW Facesitting enjoy the pressure and it plays a bigger role than what you see in skinny women facesitting.

4. Arse worship – I believe it is also about paying homage to the woman and more specifically the body part she uses to give such pleasure/pain. Not that facesitting is specifically painful. . which again makes me question why me??? Yes i have a large arse but i thought id get more messages about boobie worship.

5. Smothering – Being smothered between massive thighs and buttocks is an overwhelming sensation. Or so iv been told.

6. Extreme squashing/buttdrops – And then for those that REALLY like to test their limits, there is squashing and buttdrops. Some subs not only love to have  400 pounds dropped hard on their bodies but they even like it to be dropped on their face!

I will be honest id never heard of buttdrops  myself so all in all a very educational day

What is sexy?????

I find men to be interesting,when not only the physical aspect is what attracts them to me.
Similar attractions men find in women, not only the outlook…
How many of us are aware what other things go into equation with physical look and what we consider sexy about opposite gender?
What would make us to feel there’s no doubt he/she would rock our world if we were lucky enough to get that chance with her/him?

My first thought today was that laughing is very sexy…
A nice smile with a smooth, healthy, strong and relaxed laugh. We may like vocal people. A person who is opened to laughter and not afraid to let itself go with a good laugh is vocal…and might be vocal later as well…

With laughing comes gentle physical contact because touch is important. Could be radiant. If you touch your date arm while you laugh or flirt, it bumps you up a dozen notches on the “sexy” scale. Especially women, she has shown she is not afraid to get physical. Men like physical.

I like it when a man is confident. A confident person is someone who holds their own but isn’t afraid to step out of the spotlight for a while. That kind of person speaks up at the right time, but doesn’t monopolize the conversation, it is the kind of woman or man we feel will be more confident later. We’re talking bedroom… “lights on” and “on top” for woman or „he knows what is he doing“, and that’s amazingly sexy.

A person who isn’t afraid to look at you and let you know she/he is doing so. I am talking about the eye contact. This is the person who watches you while you’re talking, and doesn’t let its eyes wander all over the room. It is the person who makes you think you’re the only other person in the room, and it is the person any man or woman would fight to keep.
There is another „look“ man and woman are showing after long exhausting night, hehe…when in the morning she or he says…“Ready for more?“ Isn’t that sexy?

There are so many variables to sexy it’s almost impossible to define. Of course there is psychically sexy but beyond that there are the many personality traits than blend together to make one “sexy”. For me I suppose it starts with sexual confidence in ones self then all the other little personal attributes a man might have are added.

I know it’s hard to give the correct answer on what makes another person sexy. It is the attraction of another person. For me it is how he stands out from the best, self confidence, has proper communication skills, is he honest and consistent in life and relationships, personality and he has got to be all man and not some wannabe kid who plays games and wastes my time.

Thanks for popping by! x

Sex there a do and dont list?

I hate waking up in the morning and not remembering my dreams.  It’s even worse, when you know that you dreamed something extra spectacular but you can’t remember the details of the dream.  The other night, I had a dream like that.  I know it was amazing by my wet sheets but I can’t remember the details to save my life.  Actually, as I am writing this, there is one detail I know for sure, the dream centered on sex toys.

With all that said, I like sex toys.  Now, when I say I like sex toys, let me say that I really just have a liking for vibrators.  I brought my first one at the age of 19 on an  trip to a little quiet town near  where i lived and have been hooked every since.  From baby bullets, dildos and even rabbits, I have owned them all.

Many people believe that sex toys specifically vibrators and dildos are made for single lonely women; obviously, this is not true at all.  Most of the people reading this have watched at least one porno depicting a couple using a vibrator or dildo for foreplay or during sex.  And while I understand that our average lives are not as simple as a porno, there is no reason why the sex can’t be just as fun.  And while I understand, men have their egos to think about, there are certain techniques that should be used when using said sex toys during sex.  Below are 8 simple tidbits that might help you fellas and some women out using vibrators and dildos in the couples’s sex department.

1)    Sex toys are NOT a one size fits all.  They are not for everyone women that lays in your bed and really shouldn’t be used everyday unless that is the only way your girl can get off.

2)    Communication is the key!  I know it sounds very cliché’ but it really is the truth.  It’s the best way to know how your partner perceives the idea of using toys and what your partner likes.  Never try to guess because it really is a waste of time.  Not all women are going to be into the idea of using a vibrator or dildo for foreplay or sex.  ***Point Blank Fact:  Just because a woman fucks you on the first night, doesn’t mean she is a labeled freak and down for anything; it only means she fucked you on the first night.

3)    Keep your toys CLEAN!  I know this is an odd statement but trust that there are very few women who will get turned on by the smell of 3-day-old pussy on a used dildo.  You want a clean fork when you eat, same should apply to your vibrators and dildos.

4)    NEVER, EVER put a dry vibrator or rub a dry dildo against a clitoris.  If you’re asking yourself why right now, you really have no business reading this blog and need to take an Anatomy 101 course.

5)    Remember that vibrators are a machine, no matter how big or small…. They are still machines.  Unless your women specifically request it or you just know she is loving it never put a vibrator on a high setting on her clitoris.  If your thinking to yourself that you have done this and she screamed in pleasure, ask yourself this, can you really tell the difference in her polite screams of pains or discomfort from moans of pleasure?  With that said, leave the back massagers for the back!

6)    Using a vibrator or dildo for foreplay is a preshow for the main event.  Just because she has an orgasm during the foreplay does not give you the right to get lazy for the main event.  If you do, your only making yourself look bad.  And trust, she will remember that.

7)    For those of the men that aren’t used to giving and have no patient, this might not be the thing for you.  If your using the vibrator on her, the moment is for her… just because you think you are done doesn’t mean she is.  Speaking from experience, there is nothing worse than being on the verge of the most amazing orgasm to have it taken away because your beau just assumed the moment was over.

And from that leads me to this, when using a vibrator on your woman, pay attention to how she responds to the machine.  If you’re not sure, fucking ask her, point blank.  It is very easy for you to find her spot with a vibrator or dildo that will drive her up the way, but it is even easier for you to lose that spot and not even know it.  And again speaking from experience, the worst thing in the world is to be on the edge of an amazing orgasm only to have a man move the vibrator and loose that feeling.

And on that note me and my magic wand (in purple my fave colour) may have a play date later!!

Thanks for popping by x

Making love versus fucking…..

My question of the day….

Making Love vs. Fucking!

So I got to thinking about the whole making love verses fucking thing and realized that society thinks these two are mutually exclusive. Why do they have to be? Are our perceptions wrong?

My 2 pennies worth….

Making love shouldn’t be limited to the tender and sweet side. Why does slow and gentle and passionate always denote love and affection. I have had tender and gentle partners that hold no real deep love for me and vice versa have had partners that loved me very deeply and still fucked the shit out of me.

I think society as a whole would be better off and much less repressed if they got passed the notion that you can’t love someone without being all tender and sweet.

Sex is sex after all. It doesn’t matter if it is all rainbows and sunshine or dark and twisty, it’s just sex. Everybody has their own opinion as to how they like it. Just remember that the way it is handled has nothing to do with love. That has everything to do with the person you are with and the bond you have, not the act itself.

So let lose your tightly laced, judgmental selves, find someone you truly love and let your imaginations soar. You can love someone and still hurt them and/or be hurt by them under the context of safe, sane and CONSENSUAL.

Happy Fucking!

Life as a fat chick…


So many people these days are overweight. Some are just a few pounds past their ideal weight and some are a few hundred pounds past it. We tend to lump them all into one group and be done with it.I however think there is so much more lying under the labels that society has given us. Over the year we have been called fat, fluffy, portly, obese, plus size, bbw which I find to be the most flattering of them all and I tend to go with BBW as self identifying .The issue I have with being a “fat” chick is the idea that although it is considered wrong to mention color, race, religion, physical handicaps in a negative way;it is somehow over looked when it comes to weight issues. I can not tell you how many rude, unflattering comments I have received about my weight issue.

The comments are not invited, they are not welcomed and for the most part they are not responded to by me. I have, however, received a few that made me sink down just a little bit to reply. Comments that hit home in a way that was unexpected. I can’t speak for anyone else here but I feel that as long as I am not hurting anyone, putting anyone down, causing any kind of ill will among my fellow humans, I should be given that same respect.

We do not know what anyone else is dealing with. Perhaps a tragedy has befallen this person and they have gained weight as a coping mechanism, perhaps it is a childhood issue that progressed as an adult or perhaps its a medical issue like thyroid glands or medications that have caused the size issues to arise. Whatever the reason, the world would be a better place if we would all just get along!

the size of a person’s body in no way measures their worth. They have feelings, desires, dreams, aspirations, goals, families, sex drives, fulfilling lives all around. The fact that I have more skin than you does not entitle you to belittle me or my worth. Yet on a daily basis, that is exactly what “Fat” people all over the country get. Judged, criticized for being larger than their thinner counterparts. Passed over for positions at work, looked past in the public eye, and looked down upon.

Dating, relationships and love in general are more difficult in a larger world. If you are one of the lucky ones who have found someone special to share your life with, that is wonderful but I am not speaking about you. For years I felt unattractive, undesirable and like there was something wrong with me because of my size. But then the dawn of the internet age came and chat rooms became readily available. The emergence of bbw and admirer sites put a glimmer of hope in our hearts that there was in fact a place for us bigger souls who just wanted to be accepted as we were. Perfect as is.

Luckily for me also is that i have a big gob so im not the girl who will go home and cry into a cake because you have put me down. Il just eat the cake because i want to!!!
Has anyone out there dealt with similar issues as a bbw? or even a BHM? I would like to hear your story!